Love, connection, and happily ever after

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Source: Science Magazine

Original: https://www.science.org/doi/abs/10.1126/science.aed5189?af=R...

Published: 2026-02-05T07:00:12Z

An article in the journal Science (Volume 391, Issue 6785, Page 562, February 2026) titled "Love, connection, and happily ever after" states that satisfying relationships are achievable with science and a positive mindset.[6] The pair of authors emphasize that satisfied relationships require a scientific approach along with optimism.[6] Related research shows that marital satisfaction drops from 86% in the first year to less than 50% in the seventh year.[1] Arranged marriages start off less happily, but after 10 years they outperform love marriages.[1] John Gottman states that 69% of couples' problems are permanent and trying to change partners does not work.[1] Rather than enjoyable activities, exciting shared experiences have a greater positive impact on a relationship.[1] Only 3 out of 10 couples achieve lasting happiness, with a 50% divorce rate and another 15% unhappy relationships.[3] Love is a combination of liking (decreasing by 3% per year) and liking (decreasing by 8% per year), and it is better to invest in liking.[3][2]